This is the best piece of advice I found out for a female. I may not be able to express the gravity of the above image but then too, I will make a small effort.
In my college and high school days, I was surrounded by and I maybe was one of those people who was very much influenced by movies and TV shows. Basically, like everyone else, I too believed in a fairytale romance and love.
Although, I liked to be an observer rather than experiencing these things.
And let me tell you, ladies, men are the worst creatures you will ever meet. The thing about men and women is, men are desperate and women are somewhat stupid when it comes to these matters. Both of them become blind and they cannot contemplate on the result of their actions.
Let me tell you how men think here, they will do anything to get what they want. Even if it means to be a gentleman, they’ll become a true gentleman for as long as they can and for as long as they are hopeful that they will get what they want.(Exposed!)
Now, let me be clear, I do not say that all men are bad, but just try to understand why they are so good? Do they love you for a noble cause? No. Are they promising to marry you for a noble cause, out of some divine compassion? Hell no! The guy will be good to you only until he is getting what he wants, or he is hopeful of what he wants.
That is why relationships and marriages fail more often these days.
Understand the difference between gentlemen and noblemen. Noblemen want nothing from you, they do not even look at you, they have a higher purpose in their life. And to be honest, if the guy so good, a true gentleman, why is he drooling over you in the first place.
Just wait and watch, and even the BEST of the men will disappoint you.
What is your mistake then? Your mistake is that you leave your guard down, never do that. Always have yourself covered. The problem is, even you are not perfect, that is why you fall for their sweet words, even you have a little desire, a little dirty desire for men, that is the reason why the whole universe is working.
Imagine if no one had the desire for the opposite sex, the world would not work, this is God’s Maya. And this life is an opportunity to break free from it. I am not saying leave your husbands and your boyfriends now and become saints, nuns, whatever, but understand one thing, they are not truly selfless, and even you are not truly selfless, stop lying to each other that you love each other.
Why love someone,when you can love the one?
Why not work towards falling in love with God? Why waste love on mere mortals,when you can love the eternal?
True love is eternal and divine, and it transcends lust, know this, true love begins when lust ends.
The practical way of living is accepting the reality and working towards the ideal.So just know in your mind that the love and care that you are getting now, it comes with an expiry date, and that is when your spiritual journey will truly begin(for both men and women).
First, let us know what love is like through SnehGeeta(The song of Love)
*Note– There are a few noblemen, they deserve due respect, but they are rare, so my point is to be cautious and very careful, always remember, “A gentleman is simply a patient wolf.”